I don't know how to describe my relationship with my sister. It's good, for the most part, and she has been mostly supportive and helpful since I moved back home with my son. She loves my son and is very good to him, she's a great aunt.

But she's clueless, oblivious … I don't even know what the word is. I'll try to illustrate.
She knows that since I moved into my own place and am paying rent, I am dirt poor. I have to live off of one can of soup a day to be able to pay all my bills. I…

How do you deal with people being oblivious?