As psychological laws require ;), a lot of people suffering from (childhood) trauma keep repeating their trauma in one way or another. I myself am no exception to this rule. It's getting more clear to me, that I repeat some form of abbandonment issue in my (romantic) relationships.

I tend to attract/ and feel attracted to partners who are not emotionally available, thus subcounsiously re-creating the neglect, rejection, overcompensation, and hurt of the original trama all over again. It…

What is it with repeating the trauma over and over again?