I know I will never understand the logic behind my grandmothers actions because it seems so illogical to me, yet here I am google reason why someone would act a certain way towards a child.

Why would someone withhold affection from a child.
Why would they ruthlessly criticize a child for actions the child did in an attempt to make the adult proud.
Why would cling to minor infraction and remind the child of them daily even as the child became an adult. ("Remember that time you failed your…

A need to understand my abuser.