My husband has PTSD. When he is triggered by his traumatic event he goes to reminders of a girl that was his best friend and whom he had a crush on at the time to help with the flashbacks. This girl was the only one there for him during that time and the only happy thought he has of the time of the event. He says that going to reminders of her is the only thing that helps. The problem is it feels like there is another woman in our marriage. His obsession with her seems to be entangled…

Harmful coping strategy is hurting our marriage