Not sure where this post belongs but this seems like a possible fit..I am looking for any suggestion to help.

I go to sleep at night with no problem. My DH does not go to bed at the same time but when he comes to bed several hours later he often wakes me (or somewhat wakes me) to have sex. Often I am very complacent and he can do what he pleases. Sometimes I don't "get it" until he is into it. I check out and finally it is over. Trouble is that afterwards I am so upset with myself. I…

Memories during sex