Firstly I must say how relieved I am to find this site. I have spent all afternoon reading different posts and I feel slightly better to the past 3 days of being an emotional wreck blubbering with my heart ripped out.

I met my partner (well ex partner as of today) 9 months ago. He served 22 years in the army but left early to save his marriage. It didn't last. He said that he had tried all ways but she changed him into a person he didn't like. Being 48 and him 49 we decided quite early on…

First shut out after 9 months